the curved paradigm

Here I am again, people.. I just recently met this friend of mine, a new friend.. And recently we started chatting.. Well.. Though we were talking about the norms and cons of the current state, but something was telling me that we weren’t totally getting connected, vocally.. Though we were talking about the same issues, but it felt more of something like the outside than the inside…

Okay fine, let me make it simple for you… In short, I was talking about the problem we face, be it politically, or socially, and at times in personal relationships, and my points were nearer to the reason of the outside – he was pointing out the effect and I pointed on the cause…

On the course, he just mentioned that these days people are running with good degrees in every corporate houses to get into a job…

It suddenly struck me – good degree = good job???? When was this ever true?!! In that case, why people are at all appearing for the interview??!!!! Given our course of conversation, I didn’t dare to point this out to him..

But in turn I asked him few things, like –

What is his passion? / Where does his heart lie?

He replied, he’s just chatting and most often he’s surfing the net ….

I suddenly realized the press of a panic button and i found myself typing – “wait!!”

I asked him about his passion and I couldn’t find my answer..

I pointed out again.. I reframed … - “Where does your heart lie, I mean, what is it that you love doing?”

He stopped for a while… His delay in reply made me realize that he’s consciously figuring out… and here it pings “I don’t know” … and I remember he said his age is 25!

His reply was well figured out way before he typed those 3 words…

I was anyway getting late for my breakfast, and after bidding him goodbye, I logged out and while having the yummy home-cooked veggies, something was wavering in my mind… I couldn’t help but to think over it for a while…

Most of the people out there in the street, I thought, might be having the same reason?

Their pleasure is in something else, they want something else and guess what! They’re doing completely something different!!!

PASSION à

ß WANT

ACTION à

But the issue seemed not as simple as it might have sounded…

I was, one day, browsing the channels of my television ……. 67 … 68… 69.. I was actually looking for Star World which was somewhere after the 70s.. but and didn’t remember.. But ….. Bang !!! At the 70^th (of course the channel, 70) I happen to *experience* the interview of Brahmakumari sister Shivani, where she states:

Between the Param-atma Pita and the consciousness there are different layers (due to age/time) and therefore we aren’t in sync with our actual Self… and therefore these layers bury rather, create that barrier to the magnet that connects us with the Self!

My objective was actually very simple… You think yourself to be somebody, you want something else out of yourself (97% times you don’t know what you want actually)… but whereas you are deep down someone else… in short you define yourself with the perception or the image you hold about yourself or which you project around, and strangely, at times, by the people around you! But that can be something completely non-relative to what IS actually Within !!!

Such was the issue with this friend of mine…

The whole concept of knocking doors was like, fitting in where “they” want you to fit, and not where you place yourself to be!!! And “they” cannot be blamed of course, for this!!

But the consequences remain the same… Changing your job frequently, and creating a disaster out of your CV!

Now who do you feel is sailing on a chagrin voyage of dilemma and discombobulation ?!!!

You know… It just dawned on me… It, all, is obviously the beads of the same chain!

I am talking about your relationships !

How? … okay.. here it goes…

You are not conscious of who you actually are, then how do you feel you’d realize what you know, be it from if it’s your own other “entity”, I mean, your partner, or the people you are linving… oops.. definitely not “live-ing”, but staying with ?!??!!!

What do you get at the end of the day? A break-up number 9, 21, 34 ..???? ……… Problems, issues, “my mother doesn’t understand”, “my father is so rude”.. and “my brother .. ooohhhh …. I don’t even consider that he exists !!”…

I know exactly what you are thinking about .. Actually, that’s a question which has started endeavouring in your mind…!!

After all the concept in the film “Inception” is true.. An idea is truly, like a virus !!

Good… That you are at least thinking… That some external force is splashing water on your numb face to wake you up from the deeeeep unconscious Sleep !!!!

Se Reveiller people !!!!

See you all soon!!!